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'The Golden Bachelor' star Gerry Turner says he has incurable cancer
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'The Golden Bachelor' star Gerry Turner says he has incurable cancer

Turner told People his diagnosis played a part in his divorce from Theresa Nist, whom he married on live TV in January.
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Gerry Turner on "The Golden Bachelor."John & Joseph Photography / Disney

Gerry Turner, star of the "The Golden Bachelor," said he has been diagnosed with an incurable form of bone marrow cancer.

Turner, 72, a father of two, broke the news in an interview with People, saying he found out when he visited an orthopedic surgeon to address an old shoulder injury.

"Finally I got around to going (to the doctor) and the orthopedic surgeon said, 'Yeah Gerry, there’s not much we can do for your shoulder, but there are some unusual blood markers here,'" he told People. "And so an orthopedic surgeon went to my family doctor, my family doctor referred me to an oncologist, and now I’m working with a hematology-oncology group in Fort Wayne," Indiana.

Turner said he was diagnosed with Waldenström’s macroglobulinemia, a disease that changes white blood cells into cancer cells that build up in the bone marrow, according to the Mayo Clinic. It grows slowly and "may not cause symptoms for years."

"Unfortunately, there’s no cure for it. So that weighs heavily in every decision I make," Turner told People. "It was like 10 tons of concrete were just dropped on me. And I was a bit in denial for a while, I didn’t want to admit to it."

While he was reluctant to speak about it at first, Turner told People that getting involved with various charities and fundraisers inspired him to open up about his diagnosis and how it played a part in his divorce from Theresa Nist. He married Nist on live TV in January after he gave her his final rose on his season of ABC's reality dating show "The Golden Bachelor."

Three months after their televised marriage, Turner filed for divorce. On same day of the filing, the newlyweds announced their decision to divorce in a joint interview on ABC’s “Good Morning America.”

At the time, Turner and Nist attributed their breakup to an inability to agree on a place to settle down, as the two live near their families in Indiana and New Jersey, respectively.

But now, Turner has revealed that his cancer diagnosis came just as the couple was working to figure out their new lifestyle and that he no longer believed uprooting his life and moving to a new location with Nist was the best decision.

"I wanted my life to continue on as normal as possible, and that led me to believing that as normal as possible more meant spending time with my family, my two daughters, my two son-in-laws, my granddaughters," he said. "And the importance of finding the way with Theresa was still there, but it became less of a priority."

After the couple's divorce announcement, rumors spread about what could have led to their breakup. Turner told People he hopes news of his diagnosis will compel the public to "look at things a little bit differently now."

"When you are hit with that kind of news and the shock wears off after a few days or a few weeks and you regroup and you realize what’s important to you, that’s where you start to move forward," he told People. "And I hope that people understand in retrospect now that that had a huge bearing on my decisions and I think probably Theresa’s as well."

Nist, however, shared a different perspective with People, saying Turner's diagnosis "wasn’t a factor" in ending the relationship.

"If that was something on his part, maybe, I don’t know. But no, that didn’t factor into ending the relationship," she told People. "Part of it was the distance, but that wasn’t the only part. That’s really all I will say."

Nist also told People that four weeks is a "very short span of time to get to know someone, and it’s a very accelerated pace."

"During that four weeks, it’s not that you’re with that person every day anyway," she said. "There were only certain times that I was with him one-on-one."

As Jan. 4 — the ex-couple's wedding anniversary — approaches, Nist told People that the occasion is "bittersweet."

She said that before their divorce, she and Turner had made plans to move together to Charleston, South Carolina.

"I really wanted a home together. I wanted the joy of being in a home together and designing a home together," she told People. "I really thought that was going to be phenomenal. I was looking forward to that so much."

But after some online house hunting over email that never resulted in a commitment, "the emails just stopped, [and] we weren’t looking anymore," Nist told People.

Even so, Nist told People that she wishes Turner the best and knows he was in a "very difficult situation."

Turner wished her the same, calling their time together a "cherished memory."

"It was wonderful, and I certainly wish it would’ve had a different ending, that we would’ve found our way, that we would’ve found solutions to a problem," he told People. "And most of all, that I would not have had a diagnosis that so strongly influenced my decisions and the direction I went."