There's definitely some bad sex happening out there, but most of the time people seem to be enjoying themselves — isn't that kind of the whole point? Well, we're particularly interested in what elements have have moved the standard C+ or B- experiences into A+ territory.

Redditor u/bahdboi reached out to the AskReddit community to help decipher what part of their top-tier sexual experiences really elevated things.

What was the best thing about the best sex you ever had?
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Unsurprisingly, thousands of replies poured in quickly, so we've sifted through these countless first-person stories to pick out only the best examples of transformative features of outstanding intercourse.

Warning: Passing mention of previous abuse.

Something about the visual and the command together can work wonders

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After keeping quiet for years, letting loose with moans can change the game completely

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Angry sex probably isn't the best thing for a relationship, but it can be very hot in the moment

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Maybe we should take a vacation in Italy

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And the crowd goes wild

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Being with a supportive partner that won't pressure you can turn things around on the double

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A brand new position can feel like it's altering reality

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If you can verbalize your specific desires, they have a much better chance of happening

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Emotional maturity and true bonding is an intensifier

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Need some more sexy fun ideas? Check out these surprisingly enjoyable tips.

Via u/bahdboi.

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